REPOSE · The Silent Thief

You finished the book. Here is what comes next.

REPOSE is a self-help and education program about anxiety. It does not diagnose or treat.

Before You Close the Book

The book ends here. The road doesn’t. The six small things below help you keep going, and help REPOSE reach the people who need it.

The Silent Thief, by Noah Nguyen

In crisis?

If you are in immediate danger, call your local emergency number now: 911 (United States, Canada) · 999 (United Kingdom) · 112 (Ireland and the EU) · 000 (Australia) · 111 (New Zealand).

  1. Send the book to people you love

    Family, friends, colleagues who are worrying but haven’t said so. People carrying the silent thief rarely find the way out on their own. They need someone to send it to them.

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  2. Share the book on social media

    A Facebook post, a TikTok video, a few lines on Instagram or Threads. Somewhere, someone sinking in anxiety will scroll past exactly your post. Tag #REPOSEmethod and #TheSilentThief so people looking for a way out can find it.

    • #REPOSEmethod
    • #TheSilentThief
  3. Write a few lines of review

    On the page where you bought the book, such as Amazon. People who are worried read reviews before deciding to read a book, and stores show books with more reviews first. One or two honest sentences are enough.

  4. Measure, practice, then measure again

    If your anxiety has lasted a long time, or you feel yourself sinking:

    1. Measure. Take the GAD-7 (anxiety) and PHQ-9 (depression) in the Health app on your iPhone, in the Mental Wellbeing section, or at reposemethod.com/en/test. Write down the two numbers.

      Take the tests →
    2. Practice. Whenever a worry comes, walk the six REPOSE steps on the “One Page.”

      Download the “One Page” to print →
    3. Measure again. Once every two weeks, because both questionnaires ask about the past two weeks. One measurement says little; many measurements show you the road.

    If your score doesn’t fall, rises, or is 10 or above on either one, talk to a doctor or a psychologist.

    Optional

    No name, no email. Choose your own private code, for example blue-cat-47, and use the same code each time you come back.

    Share your scores, anonymously →
    The REPOSE one-page worksheet

    Download the worksheet

    The six steps on one page. Print it and use it with one real worry.

    Six steps to set your worry down

    1. RecognizeNotice it, step back

      Am I worrying right now? Pause. One long breath out.

    2. ExamineName it clearly

      “I’m worried that…” If it’s still vague, ask: what exactly?

    3. PriceWeigh what it costs

      If the worst happens, what do I lose? Small, medium or large? If small, set it down here.

    4. OutlineDraw the line

      What is in my hands? What is not?

    5. Set a courseFor what is in my hands

      What will I do? When? And if it doesn’t work?

      or Set downFor what is not

      What is not mine to carry? Say it: “I have done my part.”

    6. EaseLet the body follow

      Five slow breaths, out longer than in. A short walk. Sleep.

  5. Ask the author

    Stuck on a step, or have a question about your own worry? If you leave your email, the author will write back within a few days.

    Ask the author

    Ask me a question, or tell me how it went.

  6. Partnerships and support

    Schools, organizations, companies or sponsors who want to bring REPOSE to more people. If REPOSE has helped you, you can also give whatever you wish.

    Giving is never required.

If you are in crisis: REPOSE is not an emergency service. Call the emergency number where you live, or go to reposemethod.com/en/help.

Find a helpline →

About the author

Noah Nguyen spent thirty years in information technology, leading companies of hundreds to thousands of people. To stay steady under that pressure, he studied philosophy, especially the Stoics, and the psychology of stress and anxiety, then tested what he learned on himself and the people around him. What remained became REPOSE, six steps to set a worry down.